A bit of a ramble
Dec. 24th, 2005 03:20 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hilsThe person I mentioned in this entry has started to talk to me again and has refriended me. I haven't friended them back yet as I'm not really sure I want to be on their flist any more
He actually seemed surprised that being defriended with no explanation had upset me. He then gave me this long and rambling explanation about how he thought I didn't like him and seeing my LJ on his flist was upsetting him so that's why he took me off
Now, I know he's been suffering from depression so I want to be sympathetic and try and sort things out. But on the other hand I've had experiences in the past of friends randomly not talking to me for months on end and it hurts. I don't know if I can handle going through all this crap every time he's feeling low. We're not really that close. I dunno.
He e mailed me today and asked if maybe we could meet up some time and try again at being friends. I don't know if I want to. I've got until I get back from Germany to sort out what I want to do
I really don't want to come across as a cold-hearted bitch but on the other hand I really don't know if I want to form a friendship with someone who is emotionally unstable (which sounds awful I know)
Meh, so much to think about.
He actually seemed surprised that being defriended with no explanation had upset me. He then gave me this long and rambling explanation about how he thought I didn't like him and seeing my LJ on his flist was upsetting him so that's why he took me off
Now, I know he's been suffering from depression so I want to be sympathetic and try and sort things out. But on the other hand I've had experiences in the past of friends randomly not talking to me for months on end and it hurts. I don't know if I can handle going through all this crap every time he's feeling low. We're not really that close. I dunno.
He e mailed me today and asked if maybe we could meet up some time and try again at being friends. I don't know if I want to. I've got until I get back from Germany to sort out what I want to do
I really don't want to come across as a cold-hearted bitch but on the other hand I really don't know if I want to form a friendship with someone who is emotionally unstable (which sounds awful I know)
Meh, so much to think about.