Well, shit!
Feb. 25th, 2005 05:06 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hilsHave you ever had a moment where something just spins you around and knocks you for six? Had one of those moments today
It all started when Radio 2 was having a discussion about manners. I was saying to Greg that there was no need at all for anyone in this world to not show courtesy to others and that was one thing I didn't like about Tracy, that she felt it was ok to be rude to people. Greg went a bit quite for a bit and then said that it was more that Tracy was blunt and said what she thought rather than being openly rude. I conceeded and said I didn't know her that well and what I did know was what Dave had told me.
Greg then went on to tell me that he'd had a long chat with Tracy at the weekend and had found out some stuff about the Dave and me situation. Apparently she had nothing to do with Dave not speaking to me, he made that decision on his own. I replied that she was still insanely jealous and had broken up with Dave because of me.
Now, this was the interesting part. Apparently Tracy wanted to meet me and get to know me. Dave said no, that we wouldn't like each other (which is the same thing he told me when I said to invite her to stuff). She said she found this quite hurtful (understandably). The jealously part came when she asked Dave what we did on the one evening we used to spend together. Now, because Dave didn't want to sound like a geek he didn't tell her we played a Star Wars game, he just told her we did 'stuff' and went all vague when she probed. When she asked if she could come over too he said no, going back to the reason that we wouldn't like each other.
Now I don't really know what to do. Dave doesn't know Greg and Tracy had this conversation, and he certainly doesn't know that I know. I just feel that none of this shit needed to have happened. If he'd just let us meet instead of just assuming we wouldn't like each other then none of this would have happened. True, we might not have got on, but he didn't even give us the chance. I don't really care about becoming friends with Dave again since he clearly has the maturity of a 2 year old, but it bugs me and Tracy and I have been totally misunderstanding each other thanks to Dave's stupidity. I don't really have a way to get in touch with Tracy and talk to her and if I e mail Dave (don't have his number any more) there's no guarantee he'll talk to Tracy or explain things correctly.
God, I feel to bad for being such a bitch about her when clearly she's been as hurt and upset about this as I have. God, Dave is a wanker
It all started when Radio 2 was having a discussion about manners. I was saying to Greg that there was no need at all for anyone in this world to not show courtesy to others and that was one thing I didn't like about Tracy, that she felt it was ok to be rude to people. Greg went a bit quite for a bit and then said that it was more that Tracy was blunt and said what she thought rather than being openly rude. I conceeded and said I didn't know her that well and what I did know was what Dave had told me.
Greg then went on to tell me that he'd had a long chat with Tracy at the weekend and had found out some stuff about the Dave and me situation. Apparently she had nothing to do with Dave not speaking to me, he made that decision on his own. I replied that she was still insanely jealous and had broken up with Dave because of me.
Now, this was the interesting part. Apparently Tracy wanted to meet me and get to know me. Dave said no, that we wouldn't like each other (which is the same thing he told me when I said to invite her to stuff). She said she found this quite hurtful (understandably). The jealously part came when she asked Dave what we did on the one evening we used to spend together. Now, because Dave didn't want to sound like a geek he didn't tell her we played a Star Wars game, he just told her we did 'stuff' and went all vague when she probed. When she asked if she could come over too he said no, going back to the reason that we wouldn't like each other.
Now I don't really know what to do. Dave doesn't know Greg and Tracy had this conversation, and he certainly doesn't know that I know. I just feel that none of this shit needed to have happened. If he'd just let us meet instead of just assuming we wouldn't like each other then none of this would have happened. True, we might not have got on, but he didn't even give us the chance. I don't really care about becoming friends with Dave again since he clearly has the maturity of a 2 year old, but it bugs me and Tracy and I have been totally misunderstanding each other thanks to Dave's stupidity. I don't really have a way to get in touch with Tracy and talk to her and if I e mail Dave (don't have his number any more) there's no guarantee he'll talk to Tracy or explain things correctly.
God, I feel to bad for being such a bitch about her when clearly she's been as hurt and upset about this as I have. God, Dave is a wanker
