Well, that was a good start
Feb. 19th, 2004 09:34 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
hilsI've spent the last 2 days learning how to cope with stress. Putting it into practise is a lot harder than they make it sound. One thing I was told is that I have to learn how to say no to people
Just had this conversation with Tom, bearing in mind I've just got back from a 4 hour train journey.
He says
"I've left the kitchen for you to clean tonight as I'm not doing your washing up for you."
What I SHOULD have said was.
"Fine, from now on I'm not cleaning up any of your shit then. I'm tired and I want to go to bed. It won't kill you to do a few dishes."
What I ACTUALLY said was.
"Ok, I'll be down in a bit."
I SUCK!!!!!
Just had this conversation with Tom, bearing in mind I've just got back from a 4 hour train journey.
He says
"I've left the kitchen for you to clean tonight as I'm not doing your washing up for you."
What I SHOULD have said was.
"Fine, from now on I'm not cleaning up any of your shit then. I'm tired and I want to go to bed. It won't kill you to do a few dishes."
What I ACTUALLY said was.
"Ok, I'll be down in a bit."
I SUCK!!!!!
