My final word on the subject

[hils]

I'm not going to turn this into a big emo thing, because it's of my own doing for inviting people to be honest with me

However I would urge this person to just do me a favour and leave my journal because really there's honest and then there's just plain hurtful and this falls into the latter in my opinion. If you really think I'm boring, write crap fic and make crap icons then why are you here?

Right, now I'm going to post fic! :-P

Comments

[kazzy-cee.livejournal.com]

Huh...

Seems a little odd to be so critical and stay on someone's list.

I think you're braver than I am - I wouldn't want to do the honesty thingy.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Hehe! I'm almost starting to regret it. LOL.

[danceswithgary]

There's honesty and then there's nasty. *loves you to bits*

[hils.livejournal.com]

Thanks!

[bogwitch.livejournal.com]

Wow. And people call me blunt.

I never say anything I wouldn't say directly to someone's face.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Honestly, I have no problems with people being honest with me for the most part. I'd rather know how people feel, but that comment is just plain nasty

[phoebesmum.livejournal.com]

Wow. And also *hugs*.

*avoids this meme like the plague*

Besides, I already have the plague. And no Merlin to come up with a miracle cure.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Everyone should have their own personal Merlin

*hugs*

[flickums.livejournal.com]

*goes into Ghost mode*

What a crock of shit....

[hils.livejournal.com]

Indeed.

[spikewriter]

This is why I don't do those. A friend, if they truly thought there was a problem, would drop me a line, call me, speak to me privately. Just opening up and tell anonymous people to be "honest" gives some people the opportunity to get their jollies by being nasty.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I do kind of wish I hadn't asked now :(

[flickums.livejournal.com]

Unrelated but your new Friends Only banner reminds me of The Princess Bride.

"Never get into a battle of wits with the ultimate killing machine when death is on the line! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA--*thud*"

[hils.livejournal.com]

Heee!!!!

[folkin-up-again.livejournal.com]

Too bad it's anonymous and you can't defriend them yourself.

I'm a newer friend, I think I friended you like two days ago. I find your enthusiasm towards fandom endearing; it's nice to see people so invigorated about the same things I love.

Don't listen to her/him, your vids/fics are excellent. Besides, according to her/him, every fanvid is the same because people only have so much media to clip from. ;]

Happy New Years (unless you're in Asia or the Middle East, in which case Happy-Belated-New-Years =])

[hils.livejournal.com]

LOL! Yes, thank you!

Happy New Year to you too. I'm in England so there's a few hours left to go yet.

[aurora-bee.livejournal.com]

What's an avid?

[hils.livejournal.com]

Another name for icons

[otw1980.livejournal.com]

I am trying to have a happy and positive New Year but shits like that really piss me off.

I was about to rant and then realised that they weren't worth the typing.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Aww! Well, thanks for getting angry on my behalf!

I'm over it now. They're not worth the time, like you say

[cinderella81.livejournal.com]

That's just ... nasty ...

*squishes*

[hils.livejournal.com]

*cuddles*

[drusplace.livejournal.com]

:HUGS:

[hils.livejournal.com]

*cuddles*

[myownghost.livejournal.com]

i've been online for way over a decade and have over the years seen so much ugly behavior from people who hide behind anonymity. friending and share-the-love posting memes are fun, but some people take the concept of "honesty" into the realm of brutal, just for kicks. well, i see you have lots of other comments, so that's all i gotta say. :)

[hils.livejournal.com]

Thanks! Yeah, I had no idea anyone on my flist was that cowardly :(

[gillo]

I've replied to that person. Just thought you'd like to know.

{{hugs}}

[hils.livejournal.com]

Aww! Thank you! *hugs*

[calliopes_pen]

That's incredibly nasty, as everyone else has already said. And it's a major reason why I won't be participating in that meme.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I do kind of wish I hadn't bothered now

[gillo]

Nasty. I'm way too much of a coward to join in that sort of thing, so go you! for courage.

I skip the bits of your posts that I'm not so interested in, though I enjoy seeing your enthusiasm - it's part of your charm.

And whoever that git is should sod right off.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Thanks! And I hope they do sod off. I don't need people like that on my flist

[supergee.livejournal.com]

One of Robert Anton Wilson's favorite terms of abuse was "nameless asshole." He started using it long before the Internet, but it is perfectly appropriate for anonymous posters like the one you encountered.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Yes, a very apt description

[bethctg2.livejournal.com]

Now that's just ridiculous. On so many levels.

And, hey, I missed your journal when I got all emo and quiet and hid away.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Aww! Well, I'm glad to have you back *hugs*

[ithildyn.livejournal.com]

Ugh. Wants to wield the clue bat at your anon 'freind'. It's called a scroll bar, and you use it to slide past stuff you don't want to read. Or you can use those nifty little arrow keys that keyboards come with! They're all the rage! And if you really don't like it, defriend!

Lord.

[HUGS]

[hils.livejournal.com]

Exactly! I don't know why this person stays here if that's how they feel

[goth-clark.livejournal.com]

Seriously, one of the best things ever is when I discovered Hils. You totally brighten up my friends list and I love that you post about so many different things. I think you are awesome. There is my honesty. *hugs*

[hils.livejournal.com]

Aww!!! *cuddles you* Thank you so much!

I love having you on my flist too!

[danaid-luv.livejournal.com]

So much snipe and yet they refuse to own up to it--why on earth would they want to stick around if they honestly believe what they've written? Cowardly idiot.

I happen to appreciate your enthusiasm and though we're miles apart now in terms of fandoms, I can't imagine ever turning you loose--I like *you* (and your stories, when I give them a random go, & your icons)

Cowardly idiot.

[hils.livejournal.com]

*cuddles*

ILU2

[dreamwvr73.livejournal.com]

Awww Hils! *hugs* Im so sorry someone was that much of a jerkoff!!! :( I personally do not agree with it! Having met you in person, I think you are a VERY interesting person and whoever posted that doesnt know their ass from a hole in the ground. They really should do you a favor and leave your journal...

[hils.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I really hope they do

Thanks!

[lux-astraea.livejournal.com]

*frowny face* That's really horrid. :(

*hugs you*

*whispers* But if they defriended you they'd have to 'own up' to being the one who said it.... and somehow I don't think they'll dare.

[hils.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that's a good point! Ah well, I hope they feel ashamed anyway